[grapejam88]

Quoted from Iam's posts:

“To all those self rightious SOB's” …(no hate here?)

“I think it is sad when a nurse has to choose between begging, stealing or suicide.” (Thinking of death)

“No but it sure would be nice to know where I should go to lay down and die.” (wishing for death?)

“I may have bladder cancer .” (Something you just throw out there for us, like a bone. Is this really true? If so, my sympathies, truly. There really are treatments as my family has been through this. Or…is this just more talk of death?)

“If you recall I asked if anyone knew how I could make some money until I found a job. Then we went to Mc D's etc.” (So..I don’t understand. You ask, we give an opinion or idea, you trash that idea and then tell us we are a bunch of idiots?)
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PLEASE…read your own posts before saying you don’t have a mental health issue and get yourself some help. The problems you have to discuss don’t belong in this forum and we probably can’t help you because you won’t let us suggest anything or “converse” with you in an open way without direct attack. You have shown repeatedly how much of a team player you really AREN’T. No surprise you aren’t working as far as I am concerned if you carry that attitude into your interviews. Let others talk WITH you back and forth and show them the same respect you seem to demand of us and then maybe you can find comfort in a forum such as this.

[lam]

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grapejam88 said:

Quotes directly from Iam's posts:

“To all those self rightious SOB's” …(no hate here?)

“I think it is sad when a nurse has to choose between begging, stealing or suicide.” (Thinking of death)

“No but it sure would be nice to know where I should go to lay down and die.” (wishing for death?)

“I may have bladder cancer .” (Something you just throw out there for us, like a bone. Is this really true? If so, my sympathies, truly. There really are treatments as my family has been through this. Or…is this just more talk of death?)

“If you recall I asked if anyone knew how I could make some money until I found a job. Then we went to Mc D's etc.” (So..I don’t understand. You ask, we give an opinion or idea, you trash that idea and then tell us we are a bunch of idiots?)
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PLEASE…read your own posts before saying you don’t have a mental health issue and get yourself some help. The problems you have to discuss don’t belong in this forum and we probably can’t help you because you won’t let us suggest anything or “converse” with you in an open way without direct attack. You have shown repeatedly how much of a team player you really AREN’T. No surprise you aren’t working as far as I am concerned if you carry that attitude into your interviews. Let others talk WITH you back and forth and show them the same respect you seem to demand of us and then maybe you can find comfort in a forum such as this.

[/ QUOTE ]severe stress over an extended period of time can cause some one to appesar as a mental case especially if that person has no support system. as far as the dying talk goes that is just that talk refering to what else is there when you have checked out all options and there aren't any what happens people evetually die from no resources. I have gotten the same responce from people on the phone when I call to see what is out there and when I explain that I already checked what they say they get defensive and come back with "you don't want to take any of our advise" I don't know if this is a lack of communication or if people are just trying to get out of helping or if they really don't know. I am taking it that you don't have the answers and that is no reflection on you. But at the same time I don't have the answers either and that is no reflection on me either and it certainly does not mean that I am mentally ill. It means I am in a difficult situation and was looking for any one that may know something I don't. As far as the bladder cancer goes it is a possibility exrays showed spots on 3 seperate occassions but this was not talked to me about it and the only reason that I saw the exrays was a teck gave me them with the circles around the spots. so some one did see them and questioned the spots but it was ignored or hidden from me. This could be the reason for the back pain,since i did not hurt myself.

[MedicRN]

Iam,

Having read this thread 4 times to make sure I wasn't missing anything, I've come to the conclusion you are either as delusional as Grape describes (probably more so) or a 15 year old spoiling for a fight. Either way, you need some serious help.

Those who have responded to your posts have done nothing but offer you the advice you appeared to seek, but you quickly throw back in their faces. I have seen nothing but me, me, oh poor, pitiful me in your replys/tangents.

To everyone else, let Iam have the last word and stop the thread. Who will be the bigger person? It takes 2 to argue.....

MedicRN

[lam]

you are atreasure

[tigress_8207]

Why are the both of you arguing?I understand u feel as though nobody cares what you have been/going through but they do otherwise they wouldn't have bothered offering you any advice.They may come across as a little harsh but they only want you to try to help yourself and not depend on others to do everything for you.If you are too stuck in your ways to to listen or even try then you really dont need help after all so then i'd say TO **** WITH YOU! God helps those that help themselves! Your choice.

[knockandhello]

GOODBYE adieu farewell cheerio hooroo

[bringhomethepassion]

Bye bye!! Sounds like you won't be too missed!

[nursinghumor]

I'm sure she is missed horribly.

Andrew Lopez, RN
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